She's the one everyone calls. And she's running on empty

You know her.

She mentors the new hire without being asked.

She smooths over tension in meetings before anyone notices it.

She delivers, every time, while quietly carrying things that were never officially hers to carry.

She is not struggling because she is weak. She is exhausted because she has been treated like she is inexhaustible.

Women's ERGs see this up close.

You hear what does not make it into exit interviews.

The fatigue behind the competence.

The frustration behind the resilience.

The quiet question she stops asking out loud:

How long can I keep doing this?

Celebration alone will not answer that question.

A brunch is affirming. A panel is inspiring.

But if the programming ends there, nothing structurally changes by April.

This Women's History Month, push further.

Ask your organization the harder questions:

Are women being sponsored into power, or just mentored for performance?

Who is consistently overextended because she is "so capable"?

Are your high-achievers being developed, or just depended on?

Here is the distinction that matters: mentorship helps a woman get better at her job.

Sponsorship puts her name in rooms she is not in yet.

Most organizations are heavy on the first and light on the second.

High-performing women are coached endlessly on executive presence while the people who could open doors stay silent in the meetings that count.

When women are praised for carrying too much, burnout becomes a pattern.

Not a personal failure.

A structural one.

There is something happening beneath the burnout that does not get named enough.

It is called over-functioning.

It looks like competence from the outside.

But it is what happens when a woman learns, often very early in her career, that the way to stay safe and valued is to do more, give more, and ask for less in return.

Over-functioning is not a character trait. It is an adaptation.

And organizations quietly reward it, which is exactly why it persists.

The cost is real.

Research consistently shows that high-performing women, particularly women of color, report higher rates of workplace burnout than their peers.

Not because they cannot handle pressure.

Because they are absorbing pressure that belongs to the system, not to them.

ERGs have real leverage here.

The most effective ones are not just community spaces.

They shift culture.

They give women tools for negotiation, visibility, and sustainability inside systems that were not built with them in mind.

Practically, that looks like:

• Helping women identify where they are over-indexed on emotional labor, and how to redistribute it without guilt.

• Normalizing conversations about influence and positioning, not just performance. Teaching women to distinguish between being a team player and being a team absorber.

• Creating space to talk about power honestly: who has it, how it moves, and how to build it intentionally.

That is not soft work. That is strategy.

The question this month is not how far women have come.

It is: what are we doing so they no longer have to overextend just to succeed?

Honoring women's contributions is meaningful.

Protecting their sustainability is leadership.

This month, your ERG has the opportunity to do both.

Coach Cass works directly with Women's ERGs to make this conversation actionable.

Her keynotes and workshops are built for high-performing women who are done with generic inspiration and ready for real tools.

She goes into the dynamics that most corporate programming avoids: over-responsibility, power literacy, executive influence, and how to lead sustainably without hollowing yourself out in the process.

Women leave her sessions with more than a feeling.

They leave with a framework, language for what they have been experiencing, and a clearer sense of what they are no longer willing to accept.

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With clarity and purpose,

Coach Cass

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