Is Your “Type” Keeping You Single? 🤔💔

Be honest—if someone asked you to describe your perfect man, you probably have a list:
✔ Tall
✔ Ambitious
✔ Attractive
✔ Makes six figures
✔ Charismatic & confident

But what if I told you that your type might be the very thing blocking you from love?

The Hidden Problem with “Having a Type”

Most women think their type is about preference—but often, it’s really about pattern.

And if your pattern keeps leading to heartbreak, frustration, or inconsistent relationships… it’s time to ask yourself:

❌ Am I attracted to what’s healthy—or just what’s familiar?
❌ Do I choose men based on qualities that actually make a relationship work?
❌ Have I ever been happy long-term with my “type” before?

The Science Behind Why You Keep Picking the Same Kind of Man

Your brain is wired to recognize and repeat familiar experiences—even if they’re bad for you.

So if you grew up seeing unhealthy love (hot and cold emotions, distant men, emotionally unavailable partners), your “type” might not actually be what’s good for you. It’s just what your nervous system knows.

🚩 You say you want consistency—but the nice guy feels boring.
🚩 You want a man who commits—but you only entertain the ones who “aren’t ready.”
🚩 You claim you want something different—but keep running back to the same kind of man.

How to Shift Your Attraction to the Right Kind of Man

💡 1. Stop Confusing Chemistry with Compatibility.
That instant spark? It’s not always a sign of a good match. Sometimes, it’s just your body recognizing an old pattern.

💡 2. Ask Yourself: Has My Type Ever Worked?
If you keep picking the same kind of man and ending up single or frustrated, it’s time to expand your preferences.

💡 3. Give “Different” a Real Chance.
The man who is stable, kind, and consistent might not give you butterflies on date one—but he’s the one who will give you peace.

Your Next Step

📩 Comment below: Have you ever realized your type was keeping you single?
💌 DM me if you’re ready to shift how you date for real results.
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The love you want may not come in the package you expect—but it will feel like home. 💕

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